love.

Alright, so i am back in alabama which is....home? close enough. there are people i love here so it is as much home as anywhere else. It was really really great to see people at church this morning. such a warm welcome back--always encouraging. I am reminded again about the amazing people God has brought my way. Such a privilege.

On the way home i was reading Erwin McMannus's book Soul Cravings. the part that i cannot stop thinking about was about God's unconditional love. here's a bit:

"The truth of the matter is that we're uncomfortable with God. We're disoriented by the way He loves... At least on an unconscious level, a part of our struggle with God is our discomfort with love...All of us find ourselves uncertain when it comes to love. We have no real experience of unconditional love, and it goes without saying that conditional love always leaves us wanting. But at least with conditional love we have some control over the situation. The downside is, when we don't meet the conditions, we default on the love."

and the kicker... "What in the world would happen if people actually began discovering the actual message of Jesus Christ--that love is unconditional? What would happen if we began to realize that God was not, in fact, waiting for us to earn his love, but that he was passionately pursuing us with His love? What would happen if the word got out that Jesus was offering His love freely and without condition?"

honestly, as i was reading this i thought, "Is God's love really actually unconditional? Could it be?" (now, i've been a Christian for ten years now. i really shouldn't be asking myself these questions...or rather, asking God) and the Lord quickly brought to mind verses about the height, depth, width of His love, how He forgets every sin, how He makes us new--makes us clean, how God is love, how while we were yet sinners Christ died for us, how yes--His love is truly without condition. (although even as i write this doubts fly...hopefully someday while i'm still living i will be absolutely confident of this truth.) and then i thought--how amazing. honestly, how amazing i mean, what does God have to gain from us? nothing. a few pages earlier in the book McMannus quotes a girl saying, "I turned to God, thinking He was a fool for wanting me." such a good perspective. such a perspective of truth...McMannus responds saying, "Which, of course, is the nature of love, isn't it?"

love. it seems to me that love is completely irrational. especially God's love. i have no worth apart from Christ. so why? why would God want me? unfortunately too many times i come to the conclusion--well, i must have something to offer than (ah that nasty paradigm in which i am in the center is just so hard to kill.) but the conclusion that i should come to is--God is love. He is just that good, that loving, that compassionate, that caring, that humble.

i cant understand it. but i think i'm starting to get it. little by little. after all this time. good thing God is patient as well.

"And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God." [Eph. 3:17b-19]

life is beautiful.